10 Traits of a Narcissistic Sociopath They know how to adapt their behavior to others to get in their inner circles. They will be kind and charitable if this means it will help them move up. They like making the conversation about them and nothing else. They are amazing in bed, because they have to know that they are the best. They throw out compliments, even when they don’t mean it When saddened, they take a long time to recover, feeling depressed for weeks. They use big, unnecessary words and purple prose Every relationship they’ve ever been in has ended in disaster. They insult others to make you feel better about yourself They can move on from one relationship to another like that.